Rekindled feelings

 Feelings. One word  that means a thousand things.

It's true what they say when an old flame is lightened up again, two things could happen. 

Be happy or say hello to sleepless nights and unstoppable memories you wish you'd stop thinking about but you-just-cant.

When you've found the one you like and you think he doesn't like you back  and then  in a couple of years, you just find out the you guys both friendzoned each other, yes people it technically happens in real life it's not just some 9gag meme anymore, it's real. So what do you do when your in a maybe not so similar situation? let me break it down for you.

Stay being friends.

Well this sounds awful, but sometimes  that's just how reality works. If you guys think it might ruin the friendship and you guys don't want to mess up what you guys already have, well pretty much the quote that says "you know that feeling when you guys know you're in love but you can't be together" exactly you guys fall into this quote. will always be a what if.

Be just the "option".

This falls into the kind of friendship were one person has a lover and the other one doesn't. its like the right love at  the wrong time, well this pretty much sucks too much, what's worse is that you'd be willing to be there always for that person even if you know by the end of the day you are just "the bestfriend" . That my friends is real love and also stupidity. But hey if you're willing to be stupid for the one you love go for it.

Wait.

If you guys are too scared to do something and let time do the talking, well patience is a virtue. Either you wait for something like a huge gesture of some sort, or bluntly you just wait of what might and what could, but to be honest it's like being stuck, And I know no one wants to be just "stuck". So go do something if you can, and if you can try,

Move on.

This is hard, but when it's too much, you may love each other but if it make things complicated if it make things worse, and what's left is pain and grief, and you can no longer hold on to great memories you have together, the things you guys said to each other, the feelings.It's time to let go and move on. When you move on its like a wake up call and an opportunity to find someone someday who truly deserves you.

Take the  risk.

I mean if you want to step on a whole new level from being friends to lovers, I guess it's safe to say you'd be willing to risk everything. When I mean everything, i meant EVERYTHING. Maybe you guys could treat each other the same, but more intimate, more open and 100% honesty to make the risk all worth it. This really happens in the movies a happy ending, and yes this is rare so I guess you're considered lucky.

That's what love is, sometimes it's downright filthy, sneaky, unpredictable and maybe just maybe a shot to real happiness. So to everyone who might be experiencing this now, Don't stop loving and savor the feeling. Not everyone finds tough love.